诗歌-当我真正开始爱自己

当我真正开始爱自己查理卓别林 （写于 70 岁生日当天）当我真正开始爱自己，我才认识到，所有的痛苦和情感的折磨，都只是提醒我：活着，不要违背自己的本心。今天我明白了，这叫做“ 真实 ” 。当我真正开始爱自己，我才懂得，把自己的愿望强加于人，是多么的无礼，就算我知道，时机并不成熟，那人也还没有做好准备，就算那个人是我自己，今天我明白了，这叫做“ 尊重 ” 。当我真正开始爱自己，我不再渴求不同的人生，我知道任何发生在我身边的事情，都是对我成长的邀请。如今，我称之为“成熟”。当我真正开始爱自己，我才明白，我其实一直都在正确的时间, 正确的地方，发生的一切都恰如其分。 由此我得以平静。今天我明白了，这叫做“自信”。当我开始真正爱自己，我开始远离一切不健康的东西。不论是饮食和人物，还是事情和环境，我远离一切让我远离本真的东西。从前我把这叫做“追求健康的自私自禾 但我今天明白了，这是“自爱”。当我开始真正爱自己，我不再继续沉溺于过去，也不再为明天而忧虑，现在我只活在一切正在发生的当下，今天，我活在此时此地，如此日复一日。这叫做兀天 当我开始真正爱自己，我明白，我的思虑让我变得贫乏和病态,但当我唤起了心灵的力量，理智就变成了一个重要的伙伴，这种组合我怕称之为“心的智慧”。我们无须再害怕自己和他人的分歧，矛盾和问题,因为即使星星有时也会碰在一起，形成新的世界，今天我明白，这就是“生命”。As I Began to Love Myselfby Charlie ChaplinAs I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is“ Authenticity ”.As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offered somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it“ Respect ”.As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it“ Maturity ”.As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. SoI could be calm. Today I call itSelConfidenceAs I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it “ Simplicity ” .As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and awayfrom myself. At first I called this attitude a healthyegoism. Today I know it is “ Love of oneself ”As I began to love myself I quit trying to always right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time.I discovered that is“ ModestyAs I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it” Fulf川mentAs I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection“ Wisdom of the Heart ” .We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others.Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new words are born.Today I know “ That is Life ” .沈阳华晨专用车有限公司 宛佳慧