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单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,单击此处编辑母版标题样式,单击此处编辑母版文本样式,第二级,第三级,第四级,第五级,*,Gender Difference in Communication,1,Gender Difference in Communica,Who talks more,Women or Men?,Stereotype:Women talk too much.,Some proverbs:,A womans tongue wags like a lambs tail.,Foxes are all tail and women are all tongue.,The north sea will sooner be found wanting water than a woman be at a loss for word.,2,Who talks more,Women or Men?,Yet,Studies find that it is,men,who talk more,at meetings,in mixed-group discussions,in classrooms where girls sit next to boys,3,Yet Studies find that it,Then,who talks,more,women or men?,4,Then,who talks more,4,More,men,feel comfortable doing“,public,”speaking,while,More,women,feel comfortable doing“,private,”speaking,5,More men feel comfortable d,For Most Women,The language of conversation is primarily a language of,rapport,:a way of establishing connection and negotiating relationships.,6,For Most Women The languag,For Most Men,Talk is primarily a means to preserve independence and negotiate and maintain status in a hierarchical social order.,7,For Most Men Talk is prima,Men and women often have,very different ideas,of whats important and at what point“important”topics should be raised.,8,Men and women often have,“,My wife and I have an agreement:I make all the big decisions,but she gets to make the little ones.I decide what the United Nations should do,how to solve the world energy crisis,and who will win the next World Cup;she decides where we should live,what we should eat,how to educate the kids,and when we,ll retire.,”,9,9,Different meanings of,home,for men and women,10,Different meanings of home for,For Many Men,The comfort of home means freedom from having to prove themselves and impress others through verbal display.,11,For Many Men The comfort,For Many Women,The comfort of home means the freedom to talk without worrying about how,their talk,will be,judged.,12,For Many Women The comfort,The difference between,public,and,private,speaking,or,report-talk,and,rapport-talk,can be understood in terms of status and connections.,13,The difference between p,Men and women are programmed to,receive,process,and,impart information,in quite different ways,.,14,Men and women are progr,He:What would you like for your birthday?,She:I don,t care,anything,s OK.,He:No,really,what do you want?I,d like to get you something nice.,She:You don,t have to get me anything,besides we can,t afford much right now.,He:Well,how about if we just go out for dinner together then?,She:Sure,that,s fine.I don,t really want anything.You always give me whatever I want anyway.,.,15,He:What would you like for y,Women are better than men at:,Verbal fluency,Short term memory,Listening skills,16,Women are better than men a,Male,and,Female,have learned to become male or female when the grow up.,17,Male and Female have learned t,Girl,babies are crooned over,talked to and stroked more than boys.,18,Girl babies are crooned over,Girls,learn to talk earlier,and better at languages and they have a better memory for details,respond better to facial expressions and body language more than boys.,19,Girls learn to talk earl,Boys and girls play differently.,Girls,tend to play in small groups and usually have a“best friend”with whom they share their secrets.,Boys,tend to form looser attachments.They bond through physical rather than verbal play.,20,Boys and girls play different,Women,never lose the need for a best friend with whom they can exchange confidences.,Men,who feel no such need in the first place,rarely form the same kind of one-to-one close friendships.,21,Women never lose the need for,Men,tend to take things at face value.Ask him a question and hell answer it.,Ask a,woman,and shell probably reply with another question.,22,Men tend to take things at fa,Women,tend to look for the meaning behind the words.,They are experts at reading non-verbal cues,23,Women tend to look for the me,Men,tend to stick to factual stuff like current affairs,sport,business,etc.,Women,like to talk about their feelings,families,and other people.,24,Men tend to stick to factual,Women,remember exactly what has been said,when,how and by whom.,Women,may make a request in the form of a polite question;,men,are more likely to issue a direct command.,25,Women remember exactly what h,Women,interrupt more,but usually only to murmur encouraging prompts like“I see”and“Really”.,Men,interrupt in order to hijack the conversation altogether.,26,Women interrupt more,but usu,Remember,While one may be speaking plain English,the others probably listening in foreign!,27,Remem
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