Health_and_Happiness健康和幸福

Click to edit Master title style,Click to edit Master text styles,Second level,Third level,Fourth level,Fifth level,*,Health&Happiness,健康与幸福,Health is,健康是,Happiness is.,幸福是,Mental Health,精神健康,Personal Landscape,内在风景线,Iceberg of the Mind,思想的冰山,Growth or,Defence,成长还是防御,Communication Model,(,Wong&McKeen,),沟通的模式,(,黄焕祥与麦基卓,),Stages of Relationships,关系的不同阶段,Six Brains,六种脑,Factors in a Healthy Relationship,有益于健康关系的因素,Resonance,Path of Glory,荣耀之路,Songs go to“,Songs.PPT,”,Photos,图片,Jock McKeen,MD,Lic.Ac.(UK,),Bennet,Wong,MD,F.R.C.P.(c,),Health Is,健康是,A state of harmony and free-flowing energy,一种能量自由流淌的和谐状态,Arising in a condition of openness,contact,connection and resonance(with self and other),产生于（对自己和他人的）敞开、接触、连结与回应,Occurs on all dimensions of the being(physical,emotional,mental and spiritual),在生命的各个层面上发生（身体的，情绪的，精神与灵性的）,With health comes growth and fulfillment,健康导致成长与满足,Happiness Is.,幸福是,A feeling of wellbeing arising with a state of health,因为健康而产生的一种致福感,Happiness involves the ability to love and work(Freud),幸福即是有能力去爱与工作,(,弗洛伊德）,Mental Health,精神健康,Freud said health involves the ability to love and work,弗洛伊德说过,健康包括爱和工作的能力,We(Ben and Jock)say that health involves the ability to love(connect)through work and play,我们,(,黄唤详和麦基卓,),认为,健康包括通过工作和活动来,(,连结,),爱的能力,Stages of Relationships,关系的不同阶段,All relationships pass through a series of stages,所有的关系皆经历一系列的阶段,Family relationships,friendships,business,marriage partners,家庭关系，朋友关系，生意关系，婚姻关系,One person might be in one stage,while the other is in a different stage,一个人可能在一个阶段，而另一个人则处于另一个阶段,Relationships are an excellent place to grow and develop,关系是一个成长与发展的极好场所,Not all relationships are growth relationships,并非所有关系都是成长的关系,Stages of Relationship,关系的不同阶段,Power,Struggle,权力斗争,Integration,整合,Commitment,承诺,Co-Creativity,共同创造,Romance,罗曼蒂克,Separation,分离,Transcendence,超越,Apathy,冷漠,Every Relationship goes through,A Power Struggle Stage,权力斗争期,Power Struggle,The main issue is CONTROL,Control is not bad,控制并非坏事,Control is useful in maintaining order,控制在维护秩序方面是有用的,The problem is that control involves being closed,问题是控制造成了关闭,When people are closed,they cannot grow,and can become ill,当人们处在关闭状态时,他们就无法成长并且会导致生病,Thus,people do not grow in power and control(since they are closed),因此,在外在权能与控制状态下,人们不能成长,People only can grow in strength and openness,人只有在内在力量和开放中才能成长,In a balanced life,both control and letting go are necessary,为使生活取得平衡,控制和放下都是必要的,A balanced life involves both,growth&defence,strength&power,一个平衡的生活既包含了成长,内在力量,也包含了防卫,外在权能,Power&Strength,外在权能与内在力量,”Power corrupts;absolute power corrupts absolutely”,“,权力导致腐败,;,绝对的权力导致绝对的腐败,”,Strength enhances growth;the more open a person is,the more life is enhanced,内在力量有助于成长,;,一个人愈加开放,他,/,她就愈加有生命力,.,Strength,内在力量,Power,外在权能,Open,敞开,accept self&other,接纳自我与他人,Vulnerability,脆弱,Closed,关闭,control self&other,控制自我与他人,Defended,防卫,Factors Contributing to Healthy Relationships,有益于健康关系的因素,Openness,敞开,Honesty,诚实,Revelation,呈现,/,表白,Vulnerability,脆弱,Sharing,分享,Recognition and knowing,认可与了解,Curiosity(about self and other),（对于自我和他人的）好奇心,Acceptance,接纳,Concern and care for one another,相互间的关心与关怀,Congruity,一致性,Inclusion,包容性,Factors Contributing to Unhealthy Relationships,无益于健康关系的因素,Defensiveness,防卫,Dishonesty,deception,不诚实,欺骗,Withholding,强忍,Invulnerability,不愿呈现脆弱,Regrets,后悔,Revenge and punishment,报复与惩罚,Righteousness,自以为是,Blame,指责,Lack of acceptance,缺少接纳,Lack of concern and care for one another,对他人缺乏关注和关心,Incongruity,不一致,Judgementalness,爱评判,The Haven Institute,HAVEN,学院,240 Davis Road,Gabriola,Island,BC,Canada V0R 1X1,250-247-9211,Infohaven.ca,Web:,www.haven.ca,