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DefinitionBodylanguageGameAdded:Physicaldistance Non-verbalcommunicationisnon-verbalbehaviororbodylanguagetocommunicate,itisawayoftransmittinginformation.Ofwhichtherearefacialexpressions面部表情面部表情,gestures手势手势,physicalcontact(haptics)身体接触（触觉学身体接触（触觉学）,bodymovement(ofhumanmotion)身体移动（人体动作身体移动（人体动作学学）,clothing服饰服饰,jewelry珠宝珠宝,hair发型发型,andtoneofvoice语音语调语音语调.Asurveyshowsthat60%-65%ofinterpersonalcommunicationisnon-verbalbehavior.Non-verbalCommunicationChronemics时间学Proxemics空间学Kinesics身姿学身姿学Paralanguage副语言Bodylanguagemeansmorethanjusthandorarmgestures.itreferstoanylittlemovementofanypartofthebody.TheBodylanguagevocabularytotalsover700,000,morethanthatinthelargestEnglishdictionary.Ourfeetcanpassourthoughtsaccurately,andtheirfeelingaremorehonestthanotherpartsofourbody,famouszoologistandauthorDesmondMorrissaid.我们的脚可以准确地传递给我们的思想，他们的感受比我们身体的其他部位都诚实，著名动物学家和作家德斯蒙德莫里斯说腿腿/脚部语言脚部语言Therearealotofevidencestoprovetheaboveidea.Forexample,wecanobservethechildrensfootactiontoverifytheirhonesty.Supposethatachildissittingfordinner,thentowatch,andwhenshewantstogoouttoplay,herfeetishowtowobble,feetishowtocantwaittotouchdown,althoughthechildmaynoteatameal.Parentsmayaskchildrenstayput,whenchildrenfeetwillslowlyawayfromthetable.Herbodymightbeparentshold,butherlegsandfeetwillkeeptwist,andmakethestrengthtothedoorside,thisaccuratelyreflectonwhereshewantedtogo.日常生活中还有很多证据证明以上的观点。例如，我们可以通过观察孩子们的脚部动作来验证他们的诚实度。假设一个孩子正坐着吃饭，这时要注意观察，当她一心想着要出去玩时，她的脚是如何摆动的，双脚是如何迫不及待地要着地的，尽管这个孩子可能还没吃完饭。父母可能会要求孩子保持原位不动，这时孩子的脚会慢慢远离桌子。她的身体可能会被父母按住，但是她的腿和脚会不停扭动，并使尽力气伸向房门一侧，这准确地反映出了她想要去的地方。ExampleWanttoleavehereUncomfortableorunsafeHappy目目 录录Themanplacedhisrightlegliketosetupafortresswithhiskneeinbetweentwoperson.这名男子摆放右腿的方式仿佛是用膝盖在2人之间架起一道堡垒Themanplacedthelegstothekneeawayfromsomeofthebarriersbetweenthetwo.这名男子摆放腿的方式使膝盖远离一些，消除两人之间的障碍Shrug耸肩Scratchingtheirheads挠头Handsclaspedinthechestandcrossthem双手抱于胸前并交叉Armsopen,palmsup手臂张开，手掌向上Donotunderstandwhatyousay,unfortunately不明白你说的话，无奈Embarrassment,forgetfulness,lying尴尬，健忘，撒谎Hostile,negative，criticism,prevention敌意，否定，批评，预防Sincere,unfortunately,needtoyourtrust,theinnocent真诚，无奈，需要你的信任，无辜thinkingmemoriesthinksayfeelingsrecalltohearinnerthoughtsTypicallyingfaceactionTypicallyingfaceaction 1.Handin the mouthdo thetrick 用手在嘴巴上做小动作2.Touchnose 触摸鼻子3.Frictioneyes 摩擦眼睛4.Scratchears 抓挠耳朵5.Gripper 抓头6.Pullthe collar 拉拽衣领7.Finger on themouth 手指放在嘴巴上8.Scratchones neck 抓挠脖子9.Thenormalfrequencyoftheblink of an eye6-8timesper minute,liewhenthe number of significantly increased 眨眼的正常频率是每分钟6到8次，撒谎时次数会明显上升1.每次派出两个人，一人表演（主要是做动作），一人猜词。2.猜词人背对投影片，做动作者用身体语言表达投影片上的词语。3.直到猜对为止。抛媚抛媚眼眼傻笑傻笑撒娇撒娇无奈无奈害羞害羞惊恐惊恐PhysicalDistanceSpace and Distance 亲密的距离(Intimate distance)：0cm一45cm；私人的距离(Personal distance)：closepersonaldistance(45cm一75cm)：your husband and wife farpersonaldistance(75cm-120cm)：chat in the street 礼貌的距离(Social distance)：120cm一210cm：always in non-personalaffairs (常用于非个人事务)210cm-360cm：usuallyusedformore formalsocial andbusiness dealings(常用于较正式的社交和业务往来)一般的距离(Public distance)：360cm-750cm：informalgatherings(常用于非正式聚会)over 750cm：betweentheleading figureswherever humans and animals （领导人物到来和人与动物之间）Reference materialReference material 参考资料Book 书籍FBI教你读心术TV series 电视剧读心专家Onlineinformation and textbook 网上资料和课本
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