ParentingStyles教育子女的方法.ppt

WelcomeBack Doyoulovechildren Aretheylovely Angels Dreamyangelsformanyadults Whatdoyouthinkofyourparents Whataretheirstrengthsandweaknessesinbringingyouup Inwhatwayareyougoingtoparentyourchildren Strictasatigermotherorlionfather Kindasalenientmotherordotingfather AmyChuawithherdaughters LouisaandSophia attheirhomeinNewHaven Conn TheTigerMother WhyChineseMothersAreSuperior ByAMYCHUA TheTigerMother ThevastmajorityoftheChinesemotherssaidthattheybelievetheirchildrencanbe thebest students that academicachievementreflectssuccessfulparenting andthatifchildrendidnotexcelatschool thentherewas aproblem andparents werenotdoingtheirjob Howdowetreatouroffspringinfuture Thereare2differentparentingstyles goodandbad Thoughallparentswanttobethegoodkind it snotthatsimple FiveDifferentParentingStyles Parentshavedifferentbackgrounds childhoodexperiences culturalbeliefs temperamentsandapproachestoparenting Additionally kidsthemselveshavedifferentneedsandpersonalities 1 AttachmentParenting 依恋型 Thegoalofthisparentingistobecomehighlyattuned adjusted toachild sneedsandmaintainthisclosenessasachildgrowsanddevelops Thisstyleplacesgreatimportanceonthebondingthroughco sleeping Theparentsusuallysleepwiththechildinthesameroom sometimeseveninthesamebed Theattachmentparentingmayproducekidswhoareoverlydependentandparentswhoareexcessivelyexhausted 2 AuthoritarianParenting 独裁型 Authoritarianparentsinteractwiththeirkidsthroughcommandsanddirectives Theyleavenoroomfordebate andtheirchildrencannotmaketheirowndecisions Theparentsmaintainstrictdiscipline Authoritarianparentingmayproducekidswhoarelessindependentorwholacktheabilitytothinkforthemselves Anditcandestroyachild sself confidenceandresultinteenagerebellion 3 PermissiveParenting 宽容型 Permissiveparentingisthepolaroppositeofauthoritarianparenting Apermissiveparenttendstorespondpositivelytothedemandsofthechild Wishesarefulfilled toysarepurchased and wants generallyarehandledlike needs Inmanycases kidsgetlivethecarefreechildhoodthattheirparentsmaynothavehadintheiryouth Apermissiveparentusuallytriestobefriendswiththechild insteadofassumingtheroleofauthorityfigure Parentsmaypacifytheirchildrenwithgifts gamesanddistractions Usingthepermissiveparentingstyle youmayraiseachildtohaveastrongsenseofindividuality Youmayalsoraiseaspoiledbrat monster 4 AuthoritativeParenting 权威型 Authoritativeparentingcombinesthebetteraspectsofpermissiveparentingandauthoritarianparenting Authoritativeparentshopetoraiseawell adjustedkid Haveexpectationsforthechildthatincreaseasthechildgrowsolder Don tignorerebellion andstandstrongwhenachildrefusestodoastold Explainwhythingsaredoneacertainway notjusthow Makeaneffortnottobeintimidatingordomineeringallthetime Thechildrenraisedinthissituationwillberesponsible self monitoringandself confident Theywillbeabletomakedecisionsaboutrightandwrongbasedonasolidfoundationofethicalinstructionanddiscussion andnotjustbasedonalistofdo sanddon ts Authoritativeparentsdon trelyonpunishmentastheonlymeansofcorrectingbehavior 5 ActiveParenting 积极主动型 Activeparentinginvolvesacontinuingquestonthepartoftheparentstoimprovetheirparentingskillsandstayabreastofnewdevelopmentsinchildpsychologyandteachingmethods Activeparentstakeaproactiveapproachtoparenting asopposedtowaitingforproblemsorissuestodevelopbeforetheyareaddressed Theytrytobeattheproblemtothepunch dosthbeforehand andincreaseachild sawarenessofaninevitableproblembeforeitarises Besidesdevelopingtheirchildren sself esteem confidenceandresponsibility activeparentshopetoaugment boost theintegrity characteranddecision makingskillsoftheirchildren Whatdoyouexpectfromyourchildren Doweexpecttoomuchofourkids Ortoolittle Ourexpectationsofchildrenstartasfantasieswhenwearechildrenourselves Wemayexpectourchildtobethefirstintheneighborhoodtoachievedevelopmentalmilestones toexcelatschool tohaveagreatpersonalityandbelikedbyeverypeer tobephysicallyagoodsport andtobeofgoodcharacter Aperfectchild Butrealityalwaystrumpsdreamyexpectations Thebestwaytodeveloprealisticexpectationsistopayattentiontothechild stemperamentandpersonalityandlearnabitaboutchilddevelopment 留学 英美澳法加新六国 租房 留学公寓在线隶属于同维思创网络科技 北京 有限责任公司 公司总部位于国家级大学科技园 中国人民大学文化科技园 提供免费的海外学生公寓在线预订服务 不收取任何手续费或中介费 留学生直接向海外学生公寓支付费用 无任何中间环节 留学 英美澳法加新六国 租房 最低价格 不论在任何城市 确保为您提供最佳价格 无需支付任何预定中介费用 提供免费的海外学生公寓在线预订服务 不收取任何费用 预订安全可靠 学生公寓在线预订系统安全可靠 您的支付信息和个人信息都被加密 我们以最高的标准来保护您的隐私 公众媒体 企业新闻Facebook人人网Twitter新浪微博微信公众平台联系我们 中国 400 078 3006 info 邮编 100872 北京市海淀区 中关村大街甲59号 人民大学文化大厦1206A室英国 44 0 114 2753836 info 110ProvincialHouse SollyStreet Sheffield S14BA UK 留学 英美澳法加新六国 租房 公众媒体 企业新闻Facebook人人网Twitter新浪微博微信公众平台联系我们 中国 400 078 3006 info 邮编 100872 北京市海淀区 中关村大街甲59号 人民大学文化大厦1206A室英国 44 0 114 2753836 info 110ProvincialHouse SollyStreet Sheffield S14BA UK Mostofthepeoplehopeto haveasuccessfulcareer andproduceexcellentchildren