2019-2020年高中英语必修5Unit1Gettingalongwithothers-Section2BackgroundInation.doc

2019-2020年高中英语必修5Unit1Gettingalongwithothers-Section2BackgroundInformationI. Excellent works for you to enjoyFriendship (1) Friendship is one of the greatest pleasures that people can enjoy. It implies loyalty, cordiality(热诚), sympathy, affection and readiness to help. Real friends are those who can share all our sorrows and double all our joys. No man makes most of his life, either in business or in society, without carefully and conscientiously(凭良心地) striving to win the right kind of friends as he goes along. True friends cherish the ideals and feelings with you; they will not desert you when you are in hot waters; they will not flatter or take advantage of you when you have won victory; and they will advice you sincerely when you are led astray(迷路的). We should choose those as our friends who have good character, superior(较高的) ability and kindliness of heart. Well treat our friends with courtesy(礼貌), be careful not to interfere(冲突) unreasonably(非理智的) with them, or not ridicule(嘲笑) their proceedings. We should forgive their mistakes and try to help them as much as possible. If we try to do these things, well retain our friends and keep the sacred(神圣的) lamp(灯火) of friendship burning all our life.Friendship (2) Every one of us, rich or poor, should at least have one or two good friends. My friends will listen to me when I want to speak, will wipe my tears when I cry, will take care of me when I am sick, and my friends will go together with me side by side through this journey of life. As students, we could share more time with our friends. The friendship in our young hearts is pure, fresh and simple. I often feel very lucky to have a lot of good friends, especially when I had a friend in my junior school. Her name is Linda. We share the same interests and tastes, and we share joys and sorrows. She helped me a lot. When I felt sad, she would make faces to let me happy. When I was crying, she would ask me the reason and stay with me and then use her handkerchief to wipe my tears away. She always gave me a hand whenever possible. She is really my best friend. In my opinion, friendship is a kind of treasure in our life. It is actually like a bottle of wine. The longer it is kept, the sweeter it will be. It is also like a cup of tea. When we are thirsty, it will be our best choice, and when we have enough time to enjoy ourselves, it is also the most fragrant drink. However, making friends doesnt mean we can depend on our friends all the time. There is a famous motto saying that “A friend is like a quilt with cotton wadding, but the real thing that keeps you warm is your own temperature.” It is really true. We have to work hard together with our friends, encourage each other and help each other. When we receive love and friendship, we should repay as much as we can. Finally, lets now pray together that one day all of us could find the friends we want to make, and could enjoy a real beautiful friendship in our life. Lets pray the flower of friendship will bloom brightly in our hearts for ever. 真心朋友在漫长的人生路上，没有人能够单独的走完一生。于是，茫茫人海中，你追寻到了生命中最重要的人真心朋友。真心朋友会使你理解高山流水会知音的神奇。真心朋友不仅是心灵上的相知，更多的还有人世间最珍贵的真诚。真心朋友不需要你对他许诺什么，只是在你最困难的时候全力以赴；真心朋友不需要你赞扬他什么，只要你成功时在心底为你祝福；真心朋友不需要你给予你什么，那颗真诚的心就是全部的，最重要的给予。真心朋友的目光中没有鄙弃，有的只是无限的鼓励和希冀；真心朋友的目光中没有虚伪，有的只是事实在在的赤诚；真心朋友的目光中没有怀疑，有的只是铁打不动的信任。真心朋友不需要你说什么冠冕堂皇的话语。一个眼神足以令心中的任何伤口愈合；一个击掌，足以把任何欢喜凝聚；一个微笑，足以把任何误解化解。所谓真心，就像古人所说的”君子之交淡如水”般圣洁纯净；就像广阔的蓝天一样无边透明；就像茫茫大海般辽远宁静；就像雄鹰对蓝天的虔诚；就像鱼儿对清水的信仰坚定。曾经听说过这样的话：”茫茫人海，漫漫长路，你我相遇，成为相互。相互就是走累了一起扶助，走远了一起回顾；相互就是痛苦了一起倾诉，快乐了一起投入。”其实真心朋友就是这种相互。让真心朋友与你成为这种相互，相伴前行 II. Some advice on making friends 1. How to Get Along Well with Others In our daily life, we have to e into contact with people in every walk of life. Therefore, it is very important for us to know how to get along with other people. To get well along with others and win their friendships, we must observe strictly the following words. To begin with, we need to be honest with others and should always say what we mean. Lies will surely make people stay far away from us in the long run. After all, honesty is the best policy. Second, we have to be humble enough. If we are proud in public, we can hardly win others respect, not to mention “friendship”. Finally, we must not be selfish. We should learn how to show concern for others. As long as we abide by what is mentioned above, we will find it easy to get along well with others. 怎样与人相处 在我们日常生活中，不免会有与人打交道的时候，所以对我们采说懂得怎样与人相处是很重要的。要想与别人很好相处，并赢得友谊，就必须做到以下所述： 首先，要诚实守信地对待别人，说谎一定会使人远离你，诚实是最好的策略。其次，就是要有足够的虚心。假如我们在公共场合自傲，我们很难赢得别人的尊重，更不用提友谊了。最后，我们不能自私，我们必须友善待人，我们必须关心别人。 当我们遵守上述所说的去与人相处，你就会发现：与人相处其实并不难。2. Ways to solve problems in making friendsIf you have trouble in making friends, the following will tell you how to do it Realize your own strengthsYou have skills and talents that others can enjoySome people dont let others see their goodness Believe that you are a good person who has something to share with others Develop a sense of humorLearn to laugh at yourself and your shortingsIt will relieve (释放) some of the stress in your lifeIf you ever feel poking fun at someone, let it be you, never anyone elseSmile, smile, smile Respect the rights of othersThey have their opinions, you have yoursDifferent opinions are healthyLearn how to listen to others without putting them down or trying to persuade them that your opinion is right Be kindThroughout your life, you will learn that if you are kind to others, they will usually be kind to youWhen should you start being kind Right nowGive someone a pliment (恭维)Open the door for someoneWave to a friend Encourage someone who is discouragedSay something positive (积极的)There are hundreds of little things you can do to show kindness Be sympathetic (同情的)Try to understand what others are going throughLook at life through their eyesIf you emphasize (强调) with someones feelings, you can help Dont plain (抱怨)People get tired of listening to constant plainingLife doesnt always go the way you want Learn to accept what you cant change, and work hard to change what you can Replace the time you used to spend plaining with time spent being kind Never give upEven if you are faced with negative, closed-minded people, never give upDont let them change you into one of them Find people who will appreciate (欣赏) youIII. Some proverbs about friendshipA life without a friend is a life without a sun.人生没有朋友，犹如生活没有了太阳。A man who has friends must show himself friendly.要有朋友，必须以友谊待人。A friend is a second self.朋友乃第二之自我。No road is long with good pany.与良友为伴，路遥不觉远。Faith will move mountain.精诚所至，金石为开。It is better to be alone than in bad pany.与恶友交不如独处。I cannot be your friend and your flatterer too.我不能同时是你的朋友又为你的阿谀奉承者。A friend in need is a friend indeed.患难见真情。A good friend is my nearest relation.好友即至亲。Without a friend, the world is a wilderness.没有朋友，世界成了荒野。The best mirror is a friends eye.朋友的眼睛是最好的镜子。Success has many friends.成功者朋友多。Poverty tries friends.贫穷考验朋友。Better without gold than without friends.宁可没有金钱，不可没有朋友。A friend to all is a friend to none.滥交者无友。All are not friends that speak us fair.说我们好话的未必全是朋友。A man is known by his friends.视其友可知其人。Better an open enemy than a false friend.虚假的朋友比公开的敌人更坏。Books and friends should be few but good.书籍和朋友，在好不在多。Friends must part.送君千里，终须一别。Any help is better than no help.任何帮助都胜于没有帮助。A trouble shared is a trouble halved.两人分担，困难减半。A friend is easier lost than found.朋友易失不易得。Every man has his faults.人都有缺点。True friendship lasts forever.真正的友谊地久天长。The only way to have a friend is to be one.交友的唯一方法是自己必须够朋友。Many hands make light work.人多好办事。When a friend asks, there is no “tomorrow”.朋友之求不可怠。Even the best of friends must part.天下无不散的宴席。